Monday, March 6, 2017

THREE WOMEN AND THREE MEN

This post will be heavy on the text side so I'm starting it off with some photos of a side trip we took to see Väskinde church found to the Northeast of the Visby airport.


Note some the nice details over the door.


There are over ninety of these historic churches on Gotland.

The bulk of this post will feature some of the proselyting experiences we have had recently.  We will introduce you to six investigators; three women and Three men  whom we met with in December.  We have changed the investigators names to protect their privacy.


I met the three women all within the same week early in December.   All three women were unresponsive to the Elder’s invitations during tracting until they held up their mobile phone and played the “Light the World” video from this year’s Christmas initiative. Each of the women were touched by it’s message and made appointments for the missionaries to return.

Rosalie, a single woman probably in her late 60’s, was a little taken aback at facing three men at her door for her appointment.  She seemed a little concerned that we were there to strong arm her into the church, but the Elders explained that the rules for working with single women required three men for the protection of all involved. She invited us in.  As she expressed her religious values she seemed to be someone who would embrace our message. We invited her to read The Book of Mormon, and pray about it.  Upon our return for our next visit, she met us at the door quite eager to return the copy to us.  The good Elders engaged her in conversation about her concerns. Evidently, she had spent much more time reading about Mormons on the internet than reading The Book of Mormon and found plenty to be disinterested in.  She refused to keep the book.

Lydia is single and in her late 30’s. She readily admitted that she is the last person to be interested in religion.  Throughout our first lesson I noted a hard edge about her.  But she listened to the Elder’s presentation and agreed to read the Book of Mormon and pray about it. As we left that first meeting, I was eager to return to see how her studies would affect her. Our first visit with Lydia I saw in her hardness the potential for a dramatic spiritual transformation and I hoped to witness that.
Upon our second appointment with her, she met us at the door ready to surrender the Book of Mormon back into our hands. She had read the chapter we had recommended, but had not prayed about it. Again, these good elders taught at the door, explaining that prayer was a key element in learning the truth.  At this time she wasn’t’ ready to continue with the lessons, but she agreed to keep the book and continue to read it, contacting us if she ever wanted to know more.   She was also okay with our checking in with her, occasionally, though she hasn’t ever been home since then.  I find it noteworthy that all through this encounter I kept recognizing a definite softening in her visage. I could tell that she had read the Book of Mormon. I hope she continues. I would like to meet her again and see any further change The Book of Mormon might have brought about.

Elsa is the mother of two, but neither they nor her husband showed any interest in our discussions.  She is a kind and open woman who is looking to be closer to God. Unlike Lydia, I could already see Christ’s image in her visage. We had some excellent conversations with her, each one ending with her expressing hesitation to continue meeting with the Elders, but finally agreeing to set up a new meeting.  She has had some concerns with women’s issues in the church, so for one meeting Sister Hurlbut joined us for a lesson,  providing an LDS woman’s perspective. The two women got a long very well, but Elsa has since then stopped taking the lessons.

I take a break now before we discuss the three men to discuss some of our other activities in December that will provide photographic relief if not satisfactory reading.

A little more than a week before Christmas President Beckstrand gathered all the Senior couples to Stockholm for some training and an introduction to the Pettits who had just arrived to serve as self-reliance missionaries.  We learned a little about what they are offering.  Kim and I spoke with them about the needs of our refugees. They plan to make a visit to Gotland, but, as their assignments covers the four Nordic nations we aren’t certain if they will make it here before we are released.
The next day the senior couples took a trip to a Christmas bazaar at Gamla Stan Stockholm. This is the most picturesque part of Stockholm featuring architecture going back hundreds of years.

This is what it looks like with Christmas lights ablaze. 




This is Sister Hurlbut sharing licorice with Elder Hall, who’s judicious decision to wear a knit cap prevented his hair from getting blown about like Sister Hurlbut’s. 


(Truth be told, there isn’t much hair under Elder Hall’s cap to get blown about.)


My siblings will recognize my headgear for this trip as once belonging our father.


When President Beckstrand caught sight of it he asked where I got “that Russian hat.” I pulled it off to look at the faded label which read. “Made in Sweden, Genuine Lamb” Who would have thought that I would first read that label standing among some of the oldest buildings in Stockholm, the capital city of the nation that fostered both the lamb and the hat maker who sixty years ago crafted the headpiece that was imported to the Rogers-Peet Company (New York-Boston) where I assume my father purchased it (New York, not Boston), eventually to come into my possession (in Arizona) to become an heirloom that now keeps my hair from being blown awry in the gusty streets of Stockholm. A dizzying thought.

We ate lunch at this fun restaurant called “Under the Chestnut” We presume that the tree on the right is a Chestnut tree. 



We ate here with Chris and Katie Kregger when they visited from Oklahoma a few weeks before. 

On this visit with the missionary couples we descended into the basement for our meal. The various feasting rooms were divided by stone arches lending it a cool atmosphere. The couple at the far left are President Beckstrand and his wife. Next to them is Elder Hall and his wife Who are managing the Young Single Adult Center in Stockholm  and at the Right is Sister Pettit, whom we already noted is here with her husband, serving as Self-Reliance missionaries. Through the arch between Elder and Sister Hall you can see Elder Mitchell. He and his wife have replaced us at the Lund Young Single Adult Center. 


This restaurant is known for their Swedish meatballs based on a vintage recipe over 100 years old.


They also serve their butter on chilled stones.




I will now digress to a second event we enjoyed in December before returning to the main theme of this blog.


In the midst of Visby’s southern market area is a rather picturesque building that was once the Visby Train station.  The person who was educating me added that it is now used for office space since there are no more trains running on Gotland. The ground where once railroad tracks used to run is now located a traffic roundabout that porses all sorts of complication for grabbing a reasonable photograph. So here is a historic image of the stations.



My informant also noted that, despite the lack of trains, on the island all drivers are required to stop at any railroad crossing signs and look both ways before continuing.

Having learned that a few months before Christmas, I was surprised to learn that the village of Dalhem boasts a railroad museum that will, on select occasions, roll out both diesel and steam powered engines to shuttle passengers from Dalhem to Roma.


Here is Kim Posing as she boards the passenger car.


One of those select days occurs between Christmas and New Year. For this occasion the train and is labelled as the Tomte-train. They will stop half way between the two towns to offer some refreshments and a visit to Tomten.
You will note that our Tomten looks a little Americanized, as is does the other .
So is the notion of:
“Two Tomte! NO WAITING!”
The fellow pictured between us recognized our missionary badges and greeted us enthusiastically proclaiming that he loves the missionaries. He’s not interested in joining the church but he has cousins in Utah who are members of the church.

Our expedition was set up by two sisters from the branch and their mutual friend, Stig.

Stig is a retiree from the Gotland Railway and an avid train aficionado. I believe he served as a conductor.  Here is a shot of Stig and I standing by the Steam engine.


Stig is a good man who often drives the above-mentioned sisters to events around the island.

Let’s talk now about the three men who were investigating the church.

All three of them were scheduled for baptism into the Church on December tenth.  We will call them Simon, Ali and Victor. All three of them are single and in their early thirties.

Simon decided to meet with the missionaries after bumping into them multiple times in quick succession.  As the lessons progressed, he became more enthusiastic about the gospel.  After the lesson on the plan of salvation, he said. “I live to far from the church.  I need to move closer.”  When praying at the end of the lesson on the law of tithing he expressed thanks to God for learning about the blessings that come with adherence to that law. 
The first time he attended church, the priesthood was scheduled to sing a hymn as a special musical number.  When all the men assembled at the front of the chapel, he joined us.

Ali was also very accepting of the lesson material.  He comes from an Islamic background, as do our newest converts, and as we have some members who have already made that transition he found a good support amongst them. His last hurdle before baptism was to quit smoking.

Victor’s missionary experience was almost invisible to me. I am usually invited to be a part of some of the lessons but my first real interaction with him was at his baptismal interview.  Simon and Ali had received their interviews with the district leader the week before, but since it was impractical for the District leader to return to the island so soon, I was called upon to conduct that interview. Victor is a very low-key fellow. He heard the gospel, accepted it and made the changes to qualify for baptism.

When the 10th of December arrived, Victor was the only one who actually was baptized. 

Simon had contacted the missionaries prior to the baptism saying he wouldn’t be available due to a family emergency. The only contact we’ve had with him has been chance contacts on the streets, whereupon he shuns us.

Ali had also cut off communication before the 10th. We are under the impression that, although he had stopped smoking, he had fallen back into the habit and has been too embarrassed to connect with the missionaries again. 

Victor’s baptism was held in the Baltic Sea.  Any of our other options such as renting a swim hall, or travelling to the mainland to a chapel equipped with a font, were costly and/or difficult to schedule. Victor felt that it was unnecessary to go to all that trouble when our island is surrounded by the Baltic sea. Despite the December cold, Elder Cluff and Victor slipped in to the frigid water while the members in attendance watched from the obscure pier we had selected. They performed the ordinance in an efficient and reverent manner and then left the water as quickly as possible.



The plan then was to get towels around them and into the heat of the waiting cars and getting them home as quickly as possible with each car offering their own closing prayers.

I was responsible for getting Victor into our car. As I got him settled I stepped away from the car to see Elder Dean carrying Elder Cluff to their car.  Kim told me later that Elder Cluff had gotten about twenty steps away from the pier when stopped in in his tracks.  He called out to his companion, Elder Dean, that he couldn’t move his legs. Turning back, Elder Dean rushed to his companion and scooped Elder Cluff up in his arms. As Sister Hurlbut watched Elder Dean carry his companion off the beach, she thought, “This is the most Christ-like act I’ve ever seen between two missionaries.”
Elder Cluff’s legs were as good as new within the hour.

After we had offered our closing prayer on our way to get Victor to the warmth of his home we would occasionally ask how he was feeling. He would assure us that he was okay. But, every time we looked back to where he sat, the enormous smile that beamed from his face told us that he was more than okay.

While we have been here in Sweden, we have had assignments to work with the Young Single Adults in Lund and then serving in Visby as Member Leadership Support missionaries. We have had some magnificent moments, as well as some struggles in both assignments. What we really enjoy, though, is preaching the gospel with the proselyting missionaries.

 Additional Photos:

Just south of the town of Roma stand the ruins of the Roma Cloister, ancient site of a Catholic nunnery built in 1164, and abandoned in 1531 when the Swedish government adopted the Lutheran church as the state church.


Here is a recreation image of the combined cloister and monastery.


Here’s what it looks like now.



In the summer Shakespearean performances are performed here.


Access to the Cloister is along this tree lined road.

Bonus Images:

Below, I’ve included a link to a website that features the works of photographer Ira Block whose work seems to focus on Gotland. (Some the photos are definitely Stockholm)

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