Monday, February 29, 2016

Welcome to UEV

by Phillip

Recently a group of about ten members of the church, all in their twenties gathered together to discuss the meaning and manifestations of Christ-like service, after which they enjoyed a movie. The day before, some of them gathered as a part of a slightly larger group to enjoy a dinner together and view a worldwide broadcast from the Hawaii campus of Brigham Young University where they were taught principles for improving their personal discipleship. A few days prior to that about twenty-five of this same set of peers attended a class as a part of weekly religious instruction.  Here they discussed sources of eternal truth. The next weekend several of them travel four hours away to Göteborg, Sweden to participate in a three-day conference designed to enrich the lives of members their age throughout Scandinavia. In weekly meetings, leaders among these dedicated youth coordinate these activities including providing a similar weekend conference here in Southern Sweden.

Although this week was busier than usual for them, they were glad to make time to participate despite the demands of their studies, employment, as well as church and family responsibilities.  


During this same time period Kim and I were kept busy as well.  Most of our duties revolve around, the Young Single Adult Institute center. The Center is very close to the center of Lund. It is a suite of four rooms and a kitchen on the fifth floor of a building used for businesses and apartments. From the institute windows we can see the twin steeples of the Lund Cathedral which is close to 1000 years old.


The Lund Cathedral towers are directly above Kim's head.

The center houses a small library of religious books, music and films, a couple of computers with internet access, a ping pong table and a fuss ball table, a piano and an electric keyboard.  Nearly everyone we work with has considerable musical abilities.  


This is the building that houses the center.  The young people are such shining examples of Christ-like living that you can tell from the street when any of them are on the elevator. 

Although, if I am not mistaken, that’s Kim shining out in this picture.

This picture was taken on a particularly sunny day in Lund.  Most days here are foggy or rain swept.  Although the January snows melted away some weeks ago, we would be silly to pack up the mackintoshes and galoshes just yet.


From those of you who are unfamiliar with these Items I have provided images below.

 Macintosh
Galosh

But let me get back to what we do. The letter issuing the call for us to serve in Sweden outlined our service in these words, “Your primary assignment is to labor in the stake young single adult program.” Young Single Adults are defined as unmarried members of the church and their friends between the ages of 19 and 30. The title is often abbreviated to ‘YSA.” In Swedish the term is translated as “Unga Ensamståenda Vuxna” or UEV.

A standard week has us, meeting with the UEV a couple of nights a week.  On Mondays those whose families are not local gather for Family Home Evening.  They always begin with a spiritual discussion featuring questions such as ‘How can you know whether you are under the influence of the Holy Ghost or just your own emotions.?’ Or “What does God’s creation of the world teach us about our attempts to create?’  They often have a choral number they are practicing for some meeting or another, and they usually end with a game of some sort. We are there to provide shadow mentoring and usually a snack, or ‘fica,’ as they call it.

Typical Family Home Evening (FHE) crowd

On Thursdays they assemble for college level religious instruction provided by the church’s Institute program.  This semester they are studying “Foundations of the Restored Gospel.” Because so many arrive for the lessons coming direct from classes and/or work, we prepare a simple meal for them; usually a soup or stew.
 
Following the lesson, we join a meeting including a group of leaders from the of Young Single Adults, to plan for future activities.  Coming up in April is a YSA/UEV conference that we will be hosting, very similar the one we attended in February.  We are expecting attendance to be somewhere between 100 to 150. Our position, again, is as shadow mentors.  We let them use and hone their leadership skills while we offer suggestions or point out details they might not be aware of.

Elder Robert D. Hales

Recently, talking to and about the Young Single Adults in the church, Elder Robert D. Hales, of the Quorum the Twelve apostles said, "You are living through a critical period of your life. The choices you make—mission, education, marriage, career, and service in the Church—will shape your eternal destiny. This means you will always be looking ahead—looking to the future.

Wait upon the Lord. I testify that the Lord knows your desires and loves you for your faithful devotion to Him. He has a plan for you, whether it be in this life or the next. Listen to His Spirit. “Seek not to counsel the Lord, but to take counsel from his hand.” In this life or the next, His promises will be fulfilled. “If ye are prepared ye shall not fear.” (Elder Robert D. Hales, Meeting the Challenges of the World, Ensign, Nov. 2015, page 44.)

This is counsel that Kim and I take to heart as we work with these shining Young Adults.

New photo of Amaryllis.




Saturday, February 20, 2016

3 Days in Göteborg

By Kim

The Scandinavian Young Adult councils are part of the “Nordic Institute Council”. It is comprised of Sweden, Finland, Norway and Denmark. The Nordic Council holds an event each month for the Young Single Adults ~ February was “Valentines” in Göteborg just 3 hours north of us. We were very interested in attending since we will be hosting a similar event in our stake in April.  Several Senior Couples from around the mission joined us to help with preparing and serving the food :)

 Hvitfedlska High School
(a.k.a. 'Hogwarts' according to some participants.)

The event was housed in a very old high school. Originally established in 1647, the current structure was built in 1917. We were in charge of check in and had everyone’s name listed alphabetically by 1st name. We verified they were paid and collected 250 krowns (about $30) if they had not; then verified if they were staying at the school or had made other arraignments and attached a wristband to their arms. We then directed the boys to the second floor and the girls to the 3rd. They were sleeping in classrooms and each had brought their own sleeping bags and mats, some had brought mattress’s! There were about 25 from our Stake and even those that I haven’t gotten to know very well were excited to see us. They came around the table and gave us a hug and told us their adventures of getting to Göteborg (some in cars but most by bus and train).



Some of our friends from Lund.

They event began with a PJ party / dance and we served Pizza at 10 pm. Swedish Pizza is different than American… the crust is very thin – more like a cracker, they use very little cheese on pizza and it is not uncommon to find french-fries on them.
We left just after the pizza was served because we needed to be back at 6:30 in the morning. We were staying in the cutest hotel called the Hotel Mölndals Bro. (I wish we had gotten to spend more time there!)

 The lights on the facade of the  hotel
 were programmed to change colors.
Here you can see it shifting from yellow (on the right)
 to blue (on the left).

We loved the sense of European comfort in the room.
Note the chocolate heart on the pillow. 

The view of Fässbergs Church from the hotel.


Bright and early the next morning we headed back to the high school. We had another couple riding with us for the weekend, Elder and Sister Robinson are Records Preservation missionaries and don’t have a car. They spend about 40 hours a week in the basement of the Swedish National Archives in Stockholm photographing records.

Kim and Sister Robinson in front of the hotel.

Breakfast was bread and butter, ham, cheese and tomatoes. Once this was set out we started prepping for the taco lunch! I diced soooooo many tomatoes that my fingers looked like prunes! Later when my YA committee was going through the line I said, “no diced tomatoes’ at our event”! They said, “But sister Hurlbut we love tomatoes!” When I explained I had spent over an hour dicing tomatoes they said, “Look! We eat lots of tomatoes!” as they scooped them on their taco’s. I have a great group of YA’s.   :O)
The taco lunch was what you would expect: flour tortillas, taco meat, cheese and veggies. Oh what I wouldn’t give for some cheddar cheese!!!! I am surrounded by all this wonderful cheese and we have been sampling it all! But I miss my cheddar!

Kim and the Hawleys ready to serve breakfast.

Phillip bringing order to the taco bar.

Saturday night's formal dinner and dance
in full swing.

President Beckstrand (our mission pres.) and his wife have been touring south Sweden doing specialized zone training and agreed to do a workshop on marriage. We heard it was wonderful. They also stayed through Sunday’s testimony meeting which was an incredible experience.

The testimony meeting took place in the school's auditorium. 
Every other seat back folds down 
to become a desktop for the seat behind it.
You can see the organ pipes to the right of the windows.  

250 Young adults, 6 countries (including England and Germany) 3 days. It was a pretty great experience. Every day we drove past Lisaberg, a local amusement park, and the city's cultural center which surrounds a fountain featuring a large statue of Poseidon, but we never did any sight-seeing… too busy and too tired. 

In 1976 Phillip served four months in Göteborg.
He felt a burst of happiness every time we
drove past this familiar sight.  

After handing out sack lunches, helping with cleanup and seeing that everyone was on their way, we made our drive home and arrived after 7 pm on Sunday.

The event we host in April is called "Create."  We are excited! And just a little bit nervous, but we have an enthusiastic committee of young single adults who are taking the lead.…. Love you all


ADDITIONAL PHOTOS:

The school's complex included several buildings.
Check out the ornamental arch leading up to this one.  
There is a picnic bench on top of the 
rock outcropping to the right of the building.

Detail of the arch.

The two of us at the main entrance.

The exterior of the heavy wooden main entrance doors
 are covered metal adding beauty as well as extra weight.
When Phillip first tried to exit through them he thought
they were locked.  But then a little slip of a girl 
came along and shoved it open for him.
You can see the year "1917" at the top of the image.

Vasa Church 
as seen from the east wing of the school.

Detail of the West wing of the school
We did get snow on Friday night,
but it had melted away by Sunday afternoon .

The view of the west wing from
a window in the auditorium.

BONUS FEATURE:

Kim has been beautifying our apartment with houseplants, the most stunning of which are a pair of amaryllis.  This is what she started with.


And this is the first flowering.


The plan is to include a new photo of the progressive growth with each post so that you can enjoy them with us.